sometimes....

sometimes,

we really do not have to explain things too much,
just let things stay in That way, maybe it's much much better...

Does it really matter whether you've explained?
Does it really matter that no one can understand?
Does it really matter on what was said?

Does it really matter?

Things in between people are so fragile...
even between sisters, friends, etc...

Can you say that it's due to miscommunication?
or it's about trust and understanding?

everyone is with their own views and thoughts,
who can really see thru them and see things as they really are?
do you think that hurting people is one's initial intention?
i really dun think so...
will 'sorries' help?

talking too much is useless, let's prove thru' actions then...

however, since it's already like tat...
maybe it really doesn't matter..

be brave, accept them...

你知道吗？

::

最近，觉得自己好像迷失了...

不知自己到底要什么

不知自己为了什么而在做这些事

不知自己的心在那里

不知自己的目标在那里

好像在个高压室内

彷徨了一阵，终于决定了

现在，觉得心较自在了

虽然能看清某些事情

但还是得多加努力保持欢喜心、平常心

其实，

我还是跟以前一样

耐心地做着我能做的事

无论是，

为家人

为你

还是为其他众生

我相信只要持着坚定的信念、正见与勇气

一定行的...

嗯，难行能行、难忍能忍、难舍能舍...

要加油咯～

大家要幸福呀～

::

sOmetimEs when we Touch...

:: ::

You ask me if I love you
And I choke on my reply
I'd rather hurt you honestly
Than mislead you with a lie
And who am I to judge you
On what you say or do?
I'm only just beginning to see the real you

And sometimes when we touch
The honesty's too much
And I have to close my eyes and hide
I wanna hold you til I die
Til we both break down and cry
I wanna hold you till the fear in me subsides

Romance and all its strategy
Leaves me battling with my pride
But through the insecurity
Some tenderness survives
I'm just another writer
Still trapped within my truth
A hesitant prize fighter
Still trapped within my youth

And sometimes when we touch
The honesty's too much
And I have to close my eyes and hide
I wanna hold you til I die
Til we both break down and cry
I wanna hold you till the fear in me subsides

At times I'd like to break you
And drive you to your knees
At times I'd like to break through
And hold you endlessly

At times I understand you
And I know how hard you've tried
I've watched while love commands you
And I've watched love pass you by

At times I think we're drifters
Still searching for a friend
A brother or a sister
But then the passion flares again

And sometimes when we touch
The honesty's too much
And I have to close my eyes and hide
I wanna hold you til I die
Til we both break down and cry
I wanna hold you till the fear in me subsides

:: ::

The Law of the Garbage Truck

:: inspiring read~~

How often do you let other people's nonsense change your mood????

Do you let a bad driver, rude waiter, curt boss, or an insensitive
employee/ employer ruin your day? The mark of a successful person is
how quickly one can get back their focus on what's important. Sixteen
years ago David J. Pollay learned this lesson. He learned it in the
back of a New York City taxi cab. Here's how he explained what
happened.

I hopped in a taxi, and we took off for Grand Central Station. We
were driving in the right lane when, all of a sudden, a black car
jumped out of a parking space right in front of us. My taxi driver
slammed on his breaks, skidded, and missed the other car's back end
by just inches! The driver of the other car, the guy who almost
caused a big accident, whipped his head around and he started
yelling very badwords at us. My taxi driver just smiled and waved at
the guy. And I mean not sarcastically ...HE WAS Friendly!!

So, I said, "Why are you doing that? This guy almost ruined your car
and sent us to the hospital!" And this is when my taxi driver told me
what I now call, "The Law of the Garbage Truck."

"Many people are like garbage trucks. They run around full of
garbage, full of frustration, full of anger, and full of disappointment.
As their garbage piles up, they need a place to dump
it. And if you let them, they'll dump it on you. When someone wants
to dump on you, don't take it personally. You just smile, wave, wish
them well, and move on. And don't take their garbage or give it back
out... You'll be happy you did."

I started thinking, how often do I let Garbage Trucks run right over
me? And how often do I take their garbage and spread it to other
people: at work, at home, on the streets?
It was that day I said, "I'm not going to do it anymore."

:: Life's too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. ::

::
Love the people who treat you right.
Forget about the ones who don't.
Believe that everything happens for a reason.
::

：： 感恩善友 ：：

园缘圈

词 曲： 黄 康 淇

* 手 牵 着 手 我 们 共 围 个 圈

(Hands holding hands, we form a circle)

圈 中 有 圈 牵 着 我 们 的 心

(Circle within circle, we thread our hearts together)

心 牵 着 心 我 们 共 画 个 圈

(Hearts to hearts, we form a circle)

圈 中 有 圈 为 生 命 画 圆*

(Circle within circle, we draw a circle of life)

** Chorus

相 聚 是 缘 完 美 是 圆

(Our reunion today is a condition, a completeness that is all-rounded)

让 我 们 的 缘 能 变 得 更 圆

(Let our conditions become more complete)

让 我 们 感 谢 父 母 恩 情 让 我 们 圆 缘

(Let us give thanks to our parents’ sacrificial love to allow us to have such wonderful condition)

惜 缘 是 圆 一 切 随 缘

(To cherish every condition is to be complete, just like all things take on its natural course)

当 你 遇 到 挫 折 切 莫 忘 记

(When you meet up with problems, please don’t forget)

我 们 彼 此 还 拥 有 这 份 最 圆 的 缘

(That we all still hold this most complete condition)

当岁 月 在 考 验 我 们 记 得 为 彼 此 画 圈

(When there are times that seem to test on us, may we remember to complete each other)

把 彼 此 的 圈 画 得 更 圆 圈 着 彼 此 的 缘

(By supporting each other in making their condition better, for we are linked to each other)